Why is it so hard for us to admit that we need God’s help? Yesterday in worship, we looked at two people who could not have been more different on the surface–Jairus, the synagogue leader; and the unclean woman with the 12-year “issue of blood”–and yet who both needed to come to the feet of Jesus in order to get help for a situation that they could not solve on their own.
Now, we are not allowed to impose our perspectives on the Scripture; rather, we must come to the Scripture where it is and alter our perspectives accordingly. But…I can’t help but wonder if maybe Jairus was one of those “religious” people who thought that he had his life all together and that he and God had a pretty good working relationship. That is, until his only child became deathly ill. The reason I am willing to risk this supposition is that it appears that the “interruption” of the woman into the story was divinely arranged to teach Jairus about faith. The point is this…it may very well be that God allowed this entire situation to unfold in his life in order to teach him the meaning of trusting in God.
So, of course, the question comes back to us…what will God need to allow into our lives to teach us to “fear not” and “only believe”? A child at death’s door? A financial reversal? A health crisis in our own lives?
More importantly…is it worth that kind of trauma if it teaches us to rely more fully on our heavenly Father? WARNING: If you answer that question “yes” as you sit in the lap of relative ease and lack of pain, be prepared that God will almost certainly take you at your word! He will allow whatever it takes for you to grow deeper in your level of trust and faith. And believe me, just because you have made this affirmation today does not mean that the pain will be any less real when it comes.
By the way, what is true for individuals can also be true for families and for churches. We must learn not only to trust God individually, but also corporately. And yes, I believe with all my heart that God allows difficulties and challenges and heartaches to come into the lives of local bodies of believers to trust them as a spiritual family to trust God more fully. Just remember: these things are not a result of God’s anger with us (though they may at times involve discipline for past or present sins), but rather come from His heart of love that longs to draw us more closely to Himself in order that He might be able to care for us in our times of need.
So, whether it is in your personal life, your family, or your church, be watching for God to use opportunities to teach you to break out of the cocoon of self-sufficiency and self-reliance and fall at His feet, so that He can lift you up and say to you, as He did to Jairus, “Don’t be afraid; just believe and all will be made well.”






